Collaborative Law is founded upon a written agreement of both spouses and all of the professionals that they will resolve the case without involving the Court. Unlike many “settlement-oriented” mediations and other processes, the Collaborative process is entirely client centered.

Each spouse is provided the support and guidance of their own lawyers without going to Court and those lawyers are trained in both Mediation and Collaborative practice.

The interdisciplinary Collaborative Practice model offers the important additional benefit of trained mental health professionals and financial specialists.

The essential elements of the process are:

  • To negotiate a mutually acceptable resolution without having Courts decide issues
  • To maintain open communication and information sharing
  • To create shared solutions acknowledging the highest priorities of all.


Choosing a Collaborative Lawyer

There are several sites where Collaborative Lawyers are listed.
  • The International Association of Collaborative Professionals (IACP) has a website which lists Collaborative practitioners in multiple geographic areas including Fairfield County, Connecticut.
  • The Connecticut Council For Non Adversarial Divorce (CCND) is also a good resource for locating a Collaborative Professional. That website is:


High Net Worth Clients

Attorney Soboslai has successfully resolved many cases for high net worth clients. One article in the Connecticut Law Tribune entitled: Low Stakes, High Profile includes positive comments from clients such as: Vince Camuto and Howard Sosin. [Link]

Other notable clients include: Tommy Hilfiger.